Please read Irshad Manji's latest article when you have a chance:
Manji is an intelligent and passionate Muslim reformer who writes to challenge all minds and to encourage her fellow moderates to join her.
I remember hearing her speak at Carleton University in Fall 2004. She was candid and confident despite the anger of the more fundamentalist male Muslims in the room who argued and yelled during question period, refusing to listen to what she had to say. Godspeed, my friend.
By the way, pick up a copy of The Trouble With Islam (it once went under the title The Trouble With Islam Today) if you haven't read it already.
Have a great day!